Clovis Merovingian
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Jun 4, 2018 5:35:47 GMT
Why is it that the number one thing that men and women are attracted to in a partner are both stupid things? As I understand it men are attracted first to looks which is retarded because someone's looks says nothing about what kind of person a woman is, and women are attracted to confidence which is just as retarded because the most confident human beings in existence are also usually the most repugnant (psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, and Machiavellian personality types, womanizers, violent callous men, men with no scruples). No wonder most marriages end in divorce. Literally the absolute worst most shallow things in existence are what people are attracted to, yet we're all wired this way. Why did God create humans in such a manner or is this the result of original sin?
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Post by Διαμονδ on Jun 4, 2018 6:51:13 GMT
This is the result of sin ... people were created perfect..
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Post by DKTrav88 on Jun 4, 2018 7:07:43 GMT
It's the result of sin, but our loving God gave us His word that is nothing but profitable for doctrine, reproof, correction, and instruction in righteousness. Find someone who believes the same about God and His word  Proverbs 31:10-31 10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. |
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Clovis Merovingian
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Jun 4, 2018 7:32:49 GMT
This is the result of sin ... people were created perfect.. This makes sense seeing as lust for a woman is sin and there was no lust in the Garden. Heck, they didn't even know they were naked. |
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Clovis Merovingian
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Posts: 2,728
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Meta-Ethnicity: Anglo-American
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Jun 4, 2018 7:35:00 GMT
It's the result of sin, but our loving God gave us His word that is nothing but profitable for doctrine, reproof, correction, and instruction in righteousness. Find someone who believes the same about God and His word Proverbs 31:10-31 10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. Oh, yeah. This isn't about me. Its just a curiosity to me. It seems weird that both men and women are attracted to foolish things. |
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Post by Διαμονδ on Jun 4, 2018 7:35:41 GMT
This is the result of sin ... people were created perfect.. This makes sense seeing as lust for a woman is sin and there was no lust in the Garden. Heck, they didn't even know they were naked. Obviously they were more spiritual beings .. .the body was like clothes! They made sin and the grace of God receded and they fell into materialism .. |
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Post by Elizabeth on Jun 4, 2018 9:03:50 GMT
Confidence? I don't think that's right. Is it? I look for something totally different though. I can't find it unless I get to know the guy first to see if he has it though.
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Clovis Merovingian
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Jun 4, 2018 9:06:36 GMT
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Post by Elizabeth on Jun 4, 2018 9:10:54 GMT
People look for the wrong things. :( |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2018 9:45:46 GMT
This things drive me crazy sometimes. I think that it's naturally to be attracted by a woman, but...
Have a look at the relationship in many men prisons. There are weak and strong men. The strong ones depress the weak ones, and the last will become 'women'. I think something alike has taken place many years ago; women are just weak men in past (•̪●)
Attractiveness is a complex feeling, and it requires something to be pleasured. People used to do many things abusing their own will. So, I think that the gender strongly depends on social occurrences, on a personal behavior, etc. Sometimes we can confuse attractiveness with fear, because missing someone equals terrible tortures. So, the feeling of attractiveness is rather confusion than something really important.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 9, 2018 17:57:07 GMT
Why is it that the number one thing that men and women are attracted to in a partner are both stupid things? As I understand it men are attracted first to looks which is retarded because someone's looks says nothing about what kind of person a woman is, and women are attracted to confidence which is just as retarded because the most confident human beings in existence are also usually the most repugnant (psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, and Machiavellian personality types, womanizers, violent callous men, men with no scruples). No wonder most marriages end in divorce. Literally the absolute worst most shallow things in existence are what people are attracted to, yet we're all wired this way. Why did God create humans in such a manner or is this the result of original sin? Marriage use to be a community oriented event and less about individual choice. |
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Post by Onetrack on Aug 10, 2018 18:39:35 GMT
Shakes head. Nope, not this time.  |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 11, 2018 19:49:44 GMT
Shakes head. Nope, not this time. Yes! You should totally share your thoughts here. |
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Clovis Merovingian
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Aug 14, 2018 6:04:52 GMT
Shakes head. Nope, not this time. Yes! You should totally share your thoughts here. His answer to my question is because of evolution which is besides the point as I am asking for the Christian explaination. |
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Post by Onetrack on Aug 14, 2018 6:22:11 GMT
Yes! You should totally share your thoughts here. His answer to my question is because of evolution. Partially. Its mostly because there isn't a god, never has been, never will be. People have to stop blaming their own choices on something that doesn't and never did exist. Its an utter waste of your life's few moments. We form our desires based on our surroundings, upbringing and needs. My preferences developed based on what I had access to.. Christie Brinklys poster in front of the red Lamborghini was a pretty permanent fixture on my wall when I was in Jr high. I know exactly what I am predisposed to be attracted to, others have different tastes. No god made that happen. I also find traditional, conservative women who have pride in themselves much more attracted to the sjw leftist mess that's going on today. Someone else may find those, things, to be their vision of perfection and pursue them. I swear, when people say "I don't know therefore god" I can physically feel myself losing 50 IQ points. And when they screech that evolution is just a theory and " I didn't come from no monkey " I'm about to give up on the world and its idiocracy level of stupid. |
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