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Post by Elizabeth on Sept 26, 2017 0:02:30 GMT
Many start off really well even and yet those end sometimes. What is the problem? If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore? Don't all relationships take work? So, do they simply give up or don't care to have the relationship they claim to want? Discuss.
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Post by convoy on Sept 29, 2017 11:17:42 GMT
Online relationships especially are plagued with these issues. There just isn't that 'realness' factor that ties them to one person at a time so they end up disappointed again and again.
Because of how relationships work nowadays it's impossible for them to last. Marriage rates have been steadily declining and divorce is much more popular.
Such is the way of a bestial world.
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Post by Elizabeth on Sept 29, 2017 11:36:10 GMT
Online relationships especially are plagued with these issues. There just isn't that 'realness' factor that ties them to one person at a time so they end up disappointed again and again. Because of how relationships work nowadays it's impossible for them to last. Marriage rates have been steadily declining and divorce is much more popular. Such is the way of a bestial world. Yes, online relationships have a lot of issues and some people just try and try to prove me wrong...but like no I have been there and just they are not the same. I don't recommend! It is sad marriages are declining and divorce is on the rise. Shouldn't be how it works :( |
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Post by hansel on Oct 30, 2017 1:18:00 GMT
Relatdownships are never ment to have a happy ever touch to it..it has its ups and downs,it's how we solve problems that counts..I believe in second chances_:)
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Post by sreeth on Nov 1, 2017 13:35:44 GMT
Ones a relation starts both don't know each other, they don't tell everything about themselves. Both will say only there good side afterwards both will show there actual behavior and that will the end of relationship. This is only one main reason y relationship dosent last.
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Post by Elizabeth on Nov 1, 2017 21:01:50 GMT
Ones a relation starts both don't know each other, they don't tell everything about themselves. Both will say only there good side afterwards both will show there actual behavior and that will the end of relationship. This is only one main reason y relationship dosent last. That's true. Would be nice if both were honest and said the good and the bad right away. |
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Post by Heimdallr on Nov 1, 2017 22:01:38 GMT
Many start off really well even and yet those end sometimes. What is the problem? If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore? Don't all relationships take work? So, do they simply give up or don't care to have the relationship they claim to want? Discuss. ... a truth woven into the fabric of the universe. Some couples are disciplined and devoted to making their relationships work, while others are committed only to sticking around as long as the good times roll, knowing in a few months, they won't be able to stand the sight of each other anyway. |
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Post by Διαμονδ on Nov 1, 2017 22:16:59 GMT
Many start off really well even and yet those end sometimes. What is the problem? If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore? Don't all relationships take work? So, do they simply give up or don't care to have the relationship they claim to want? Discuss. For a serious relationship, you must accept people for who they really are. With all their shortcomings! |
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Post by Elizabeth on Nov 1, 2017 22:18:38 GMT
Many start off really well even and yet those end sometimes. What is the problem? If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore? Don't all relationships take work? So, do they simply give up or don't care to have the relationship they claim to want? Discuss. ... a truth woven into the fabric of the universe. Some couples are disciplined and devoted to making their relationships work, while others are committed only to sticking around as long as the good times roll, knowing in a few months, they won't be able to stand the sight of each other anyway. Very true indeed. |
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Post by robroy on Nov 3, 2017 23:56:52 GMT
My answer is a cliche, but I think it's because of a lack of love.
People are selfsih and they don't start a relationship because of love, that is a act of self-donation to make someone happy, they date searching for someone to satisfy their selfish desires and when these desires aren't satisfied the relation ends.
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Post by falconh on Jun 5, 2018 12:19:54 GMT
I think its just because of selecting wrong person as your partner... If you succeed to find a right person who cares about you and who know your value so there are great chances of relation to last longer
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Post by Freebite on Jun 10, 2018 17:24:11 GMT
The main reason I can think of relationships ending, at least as far as the question of "If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore?" is probably because people and personalities aren't static, they are very dynamic, interests change. That seems to be something people often forget about, people can actually grow apart. It's not a bad thing, it's just something that happens. That's actually the best way to end a relationship because there wasn't like an event that tainted everything.
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Post by Elizabeth on Jun 10, 2018 17:40:21 GMT
The main reason I can think of relationships ending, at least as far as the question of "If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore?" is probably because people and personalities aren't static, they are very dynamic, interests change. That seems to be something people often forget about, people can actually grow apart. It's not a bad thing, it's just something that happens. That's actually the best way to end a relationship because there wasn't like an event that tainted everything. I always thought the answer to the question you asked was that they no longer cared to put their effort into the relationship. All relationships take work. Both people must be present in the relationship and show they care about the relationship for that relationship to work. Shrug |
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Post by MEGA on Jun 10, 2018 19:46:01 GMT
7+ Billion souls upon this world we are in… so many choices when it comes to a partner, so many souls to choose from. In my humble opinion, one must truly know that, out of all the people on Earth, that the soul they choose to be with , each of the two must be certain, they must know, without a shadow of a doubt that the two of them are truly meant to be together. If either of the two have any doubt at all, the relationship will not not last. When it comes to love, nothing is more sacred. Doubt is it’s destroyer. Reliance is the key. just my two cents.  |
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Post by Freebite on Jun 10, 2018 21:54:07 GMT
The main reason I can think of relationships ending, at least as far as the question of "If they were able to deal with it before why not anymore?" is probably because people and personalities aren't static, they are very dynamic, interests change. That seems to be something people often forget about, people can actually grow apart. It's not a bad thing, it's just something that happens. That's actually the best way to end a relationship because there wasn't like an event that tainted everything. I always thought the answer to the question you asked was that they no longer cared to put their effort into the relationship. All relationships take work. Both people must be present in the relationship and show they care about the relationship for that relationship to work. 
I realize I should have made it more obvious I was talking mostly about friendships, but that does apply to pretty much any relationship though, yes they always take work to maintain, but if neither party has any common interests anymore, and the only thing really keeping them together is what they used to do, it doesn't matter how much work you put in, it will just be a forced relationship. You ever do something you really don't care to do, or even disliked, but you did anyway because someone you are in a relationship with wanted to do that thing? Yeah that would start to become the norm in what I am talking about.
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