People tend to focus more on their ailments. When I have a headache, I begin to interpret people's worth based on how they react to my plight.
God has all power to create planets. When I have this headache, I do the same to God, if He cannot get rid of it then why should I believe in spite.
I drop my beliefs for God and seek for something that seems to remove my headache. To remove a headache, I jump on any alternative, for the mere fact that it speaks to me.
This leads to a rift between I and people and God.
You must love your God above all. If you truly love God you will not harm Him, by thinking carelessly when He appears silent since you know He speaks meaning, but not words. Then you will not be expecting a voice, to speak into your headache but follow in obedience until you are able to get the meaning of the headache. A headache might be to draw your attention to rest, eat, drink water or take more care of your health. It might even be to understand when others say please i have a headache can i get a break? ...then your experience kicks in... like the saying goes experience is the best teacher... with this method of reasoning, it aids the full maturity of the Fruit of love from God to you and from you to God, been able share in the plight of others understand the seeming silence of God, help others appreciate God’s frequency of communication, which is by meanings and not by lamentations or loud groanings, but an inward maturity expanding step by step into spiritual adulthood. A headache cannot determine who is around me but it is only a mechanism used to bring me closer to maturity.
You must Love people above all. how best can you love people, when you do not know what love is...