A future good mother is also a good lover

I do think that the qualities that make a woman a good mother are really what make women on a personality (nonphysical level) level attractive to men. I think that this is a biological instinctual thing that men choose women who will treat their children better and raise them better so that they'll grow up healthy enough to pass on their family line. It's part of the reason that men hate marrying whores. Whores are not moral enough to be mothers.

I understand your point of view. And I agree, but there are couples who do not have a soul contact, a emotional contact who makes they one, as Stendhal says. "To live one life". It's very hard to explain, so I respect and agree with your point of view.

Nothing exists contrary the possibility of a meretrice be a good mother, in potential. Our culture in some manner creates obstacles for the nature itself. I see in some liberal woman, maternal qualities. But is another hard thing to endure in a argument.

To see a woman as a object creates the meretrice. The woman who see their our as a good mother, and have this ideal, will be a good mother. The meretrice, in some reason, is the principal obstacle of the good mother.

Some couples only exists because sadness of the woman or the sadness of the man. Their lost the capacity, natural capacity to search the best mate, the archetipal father, of the archetipal mother (in Junguian sense).

Because the best is not the provider. Nothing in nature insinuates that. Nor the strongest. But the best mate is who is capable to sacrifice himself to the life of the offspring. And a woman senses that, as the man.