Post by kof on Oct 4, 2020 23:42:02 GMT
Benchmarks of emotional maturity in a healthy relationship.
Considering the normal aspects of disagreements, conflicts and issues regarding the theme. The irrational impulses pilots us to either outrage , cutoff in order to be rescued or implying to be understood 3: Being cold via putting up an attitude or acting totally unbothered.
The rational way to conduct revolves around
1: Being calm ( self assertion is always an option down the line and to master the trait of patience is extremely crucial on every such occasion, giving the benefit of every doubt by not assuming the worst and hitting back with undue force. The mature like themselves enough not to suspect that everyone would have a reason to mock or slander them.
2: Capacity to explain appropriately the reason of being upset, and to hold the notion strongly that even in this moment of stress the person whom we are trying to explain is not our enemy.
3: Being vulnerable: The mature know and have made peace with the idea that being close to someone would open them up to being hurt. The feel enough "inward strength"to possess a tolerable relationship with their own weakness. They are unembarrassed enough by there own emotional nakedness to tell even the person who apparently humiliated them, that they are in need of help. They trust ultimately that there is nothing wrong with their tears and they have the right to find someone who would know how to bear them.
Considering the normal aspects of disagreements, conflicts and issues regarding the theme. The irrational impulses pilots us to either outrage , cutoff in order to be rescued or implying to be understood 3: Being cold via putting up an attitude or acting totally unbothered.
The rational way to conduct revolves around
1: Being calm ( self assertion is always an option down the line and to master the trait of patience is extremely crucial on every such occasion, giving the benefit of every doubt by not assuming the worst and hitting back with undue force. The mature like themselves enough not to suspect that everyone would have a reason to mock or slander them.
2: Capacity to explain appropriately the reason of being upset, and to hold the notion strongly that even in this moment of stress the person whom we are trying to explain is not our enemy.
3: Being vulnerable: The mature know and have made peace with the idea that being close to someone would open them up to being hurt. The feel enough "inward strength"to possess a tolerable relationship with their own weakness. They are unembarrassed enough by there own emotional nakedness to tell even the person who apparently humiliated them, that they are in need of help. They trust ultimately that there is nothing wrong with their tears and they have the right to find someone who would know how to bear them.
