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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Oct 3, 2020 22:04:50 GMT
I guess its a God's gift, it's not a mental or physical illness. Usually people aren't better, than monsters from the cabinet. But, unfortunately, this "illness" has an impact on your life... How to overcome a thought about this or how to get rid of it? Annoying Link |
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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 4, 2020 19:54:24 GMT
As the link says it can be a choice "People who experience this fear do not usually wish to avoid intimacy, and may even long for closeness, but frequently push others away or even sabotage relationships." Which there's nothing wrong with that. I wish some did this more often because people will hurt/kill you. Saw a video on Stephanie Parze last night who's boyfried killed her and left her by the side of the road. Like everyone told her he's not a great guy to be with but I guess the 25 year old had to learn it the hard way.
And link says others do it because of abuse which is still by choice. They were like Stephanie but realized people can't be trusted so they chose to stay away. Either way it's a choice whether by fear guiding them or something else but it's a safer one.
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Oct 5, 2020 11:40:51 GMT
As the link says it can be a choice "People who experience this fear do not usually wish to avoid intimacy, and may even long for closeness, but frequently push others away or even sabotage relationships." Which there's nothing wrong with that. I wish some did this more often because people will hurt/kill you. Saw a video on Stephanie Parze last night who's boyfried killed her and left her by the side of the road. Like everyone told her he's not a great guy to be with but I guess the 25 year old had to learn it the hard way. And link says others do it because of abuse which is still by choice. They were like Stephanie but realized people can't be trusted so they chose to stay away. Either way it's a choice whether by fear guiding them or something else but it's a safer one. Maybe. Isn't it an illness? Mental violation? Yeah, I understand that such an ability may keep us safer, etc. But sooner or later we must cooperate, live together, raising children, and so on. I guess an important add must be – to fear intimacy, because of a certain experience, or because of a particularly this experience. Depending on which case is it, it might be an illness, or just a safety. If a boyfriend was terrible with his girlfriend, and made her fear, then the girlfriend would be right trying stay away from his partner. But if this girlfriend would be afraid every next boy, it there would be a really wrong choice. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2020 14:54:42 GMT
I am more inclined to think of a prudence on our own intimacy.
It's a huge problem to give intimacy when it can be corrupted.
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