Post by jester1991 on May 9, 2020 23:42:03 GMT
Heey all,
I'm new here and I am very much interested in your opinion on how honestly, explicitly and open you talk about things, objectively or sujectively to your spouse, friends and family?
The reason I am asking this is because I get two ends of the spectrum reactions.
Some people literally ended a friendship because I told them a famtasy or having asked them about them. Other people (especially opposites sex) are actually happy I brought it up or answered truly honestly to a truth or dare question about your kinks. It shows respect and a more accurate appearance of you. And they don't mind if they do not share the fantasy, but always get a grip on how I might be into it.
I have also matured sexually enormously by talking about it more often. It gave me a way better understanding of my sexuality. Or sometimes spurred om ideas I hadn't even considered.
I have extremely open about it, as with anything. I don't care about the people thinking me a weirdo. They are weird to me.
I remember around 13 years ago no girl would admit having watched porn or at least be interested in it. Since man/woman status are leveling off increasingly more women are more open about masturbation, porn and sex. I find it doesn't matter which sex you are. Everyone should be open or feel at ease to be honest.
I get very mixed reactions. Like: 'OMG you are such a disgusting little man. ' to 'Come let's try and experience that together I am into too. '
What about you?
I'm new here and I am very much interested in your opinion on how honestly, explicitly and open you talk about things, objectively or sujectively to your spouse, friends and family?
The reason I am asking this is because I get two ends of the spectrum reactions.
Some people literally ended a friendship because I told them a famtasy or having asked them about them. Other people (especially opposites sex) are actually happy I brought it up or answered truly honestly to a truth or dare question about your kinks. It shows respect and a more accurate appearance of you. And they don't mind if they do not share the fantasy, but always get a grip on how I might be into it.
I have also matured sexually enormously by talking about it more often. It gave me a way better understanding of my sexuality. Or sometimes spurred om ideas I hadn't even considered.
I have extremely open about it, as with anything. I don't care about the people thinking me a weirdo. They are weird to me.
I remember around 13 years ago no girl would admit having watched porn or at least be interested in it. Since man/woman status are leveling off increasingly more women are more open about masturbation, porn and sex. I find it doesn't matter which sex you are. Everyone should be open or feel at ease to be honest.
I get very mixed reactions. Like: 'OMG you are such a disgusting little man. ' to 'Come let's try and experience that together I am into too. '
What about you?
