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Post by Elizabeth on Jul 1, 2019 3:20:21 GMT
Is there a way to prevent people from coming up to you and asking for your number and stuff? I just had it happen like 10 mins ago when I was getting gas and it always angers me when random strangers get in my face. Help! Advice?
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Post by AmericanCharm on Jul 1, 2019 4:48:56 GMT
- Have a less approachable demeanor
- Closed off body language
- Wear darker colors sometimes
- Perhaps wear earphones in certain situations at certain times
- Sometimes put a resting bitch face on
If you have an approachable demeanor and have a positive energy/aura about you people will likely be able to sense that and will be more likely to be comfortable approaching you.
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Jul 2, 2019 18:38:42 GMT
Terrible. I'm pretty sure, there is no way other than take some aikido, karate, wushu, or kinda course. You, or your boyfriend must have some tricks in an arsenal to fight.
A missed chance to beat those bastards in time - is a way of giving them another chances (they could try their tricks on someone else later!).
That's why kick 'em all down!!
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Post by Elizabeth on Jul 4, 2019 18:03:43 GMT
Terrible. I'm pretty sure, there is no way other than take some aikido, karate, wushu, or kinda course. You, or your boyfriend must have some tricks in an arsenal to fight. A missed chance to beat those bastards in time - is a way of giving them another chances (they could try their tricks on someone else later!). That's why kick 'em all down!! I do like karate. Love Jackie Chan movies. Would love to do what he does and keep people away from me. I think guys would be scared of a jackie chan girl.  |
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Jul 6, 2019 16:56:49 GMT
Terrible. I'm pretty sure, there is no way other than take some aikido, karate, wushu, or kinda course. You, or your boyfriend must have some tricks in an arsenal to fight. A missed chance to beat those bastards in time - is a way of giving them another chances (they could try their tricks on someone else later!). That's why kick 'em all down!! I do like karate. Love Jackie Chan movies. Would love to do what he does and keep people away from me. I think guys would be scared of a jackie chan girl. True! I know that be merciful and kind, and welcome, and shy... is definitely good, but... to take a fight doesn't mean to try to kill someone. I think it depends firmly of what exactly school you taking. I've heard of my friend (a jew) he's visiting "krav maga". This type of "fighting" is really terrible. There are not mercy to your potential vis-a-vis. In aikido, or judo the technique is much more human. So, I'd prefer judo to kraw maga, because of the duty. Holding the samurai spirit is mine =) |
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Post by Elizabeth on Jul 6, 2019 17:33:38 GMT
I do like karate. Love Jackie Chan movies. Would love to do what he does and keep people away from me. I think guys would be scared of a jackie chan girl. True! I know that be merciful and kind, and welcome, and shy... is definitely good, but... to take a fight doesn't mean to try to kill someone. I think it depends firmly of what exactly school you taking. I've heard of my friend (a jew) he's visiting "krav maga". This type of "fighting" is really terrible. There are not mercy to your potential vis-a-vis. In aikido, or judo the technique is much more human. So, I'd prefer judo to kraw maga, because of the duty. Holding the samurai spirit is mine =) Yeah, I don't plan to kill anyone!  Did you see your friend do that fighting that he's learning? |
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Jul 6, 2019 20:16:31 GMT
True! I know that be merciful and kind, and welcome, and shy... is definitely good, but... to take a fight doesn't mean to try to kill someone. I think it depends firmly of what exactly school you taking. I've heard of my friend (a jew) he's visiting "krav maga". This type of "fighting" is really terrible. There are not mercy to your potential vis-a-vis. In aikido, or judo the technique is much more human. So, I'd prefer judo to kraw maga, because of the duty. Holding the samurai spirit is mine =) Yeah, I don't plan to kill anyone! Did you see your friend do that fighting that he's learning? No, thank God, no. All I know that speed and the most dangerous spots are required for this. He, as a learner of krav maga, must do very quickly and very lethal. This technique is to kill, or to cause a big damage; not to just playing a game. That's why there's a joke about this style of fighting: The winner of krav maga in competitions is the one who's stayed alive (+_+) |
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Post by Elizabeth on Jul 6, 2019 20:45:57 GMT
Yeah, I don't plan to kill anyone! Did you see your friend do that fighting that he's learning? No, thank God, no. All I know that speed and the most dangerous spots are required for this. He, as a learner of krav maga, must do very quickly and very lethal. This technique is to kill, or to cause a big damage; not to just playing a game. That's why there's a joke about this style of fighting: The winner of krav maga in competitions is the one who's stayed alive (+_+) Ok that's scary. It's like a suicide sport because you may or may not survive it  |
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Post by xxxxxxxxx on Jul 15, 2019 22:51:21 GMT
Is there a way to prevent people from coming up to you and asking for your number and stuff? I just had it happen like 10 mins ago when I was getting gas and it always angers me when random strangers get in my face. Help! Advice? Be angry and tense. I softened up over the past couple of months and had (at minimum):
1. One woman literally yell across a parking lot at 2 am at a walmart saying she thought I was "cute". 2. One older woman saying in an aisle of a store "you are a really good looking man" to which my response was: "Thank you that is the fourth time someone has said that this week, I probably should have become a stripper". She laughed.
3. Two beautiful black women come up to me asking for advice on yoga. 4. One woman making a remark on facebook about going to the store I work at (part time) because of the "new guy...whooohoooo!" Store received influx of new women customers over night, one wearing no bra, alot of "giddy" giggling types, etc.
5. Another was buying a wire cable from me and was real giggly the whole time. I said: "that looks kinky...so what do you plan to do with it?" She just about died she was laughing and blushing so hard. 6. etc.
Will have to start looking like I am "going to explode" again...getting soft.
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Post by xxxxxxxxx on Jul 15, 2019 22:59:15 GMT
Terrible. I'm pretty sure, there is no way other than take some aikido, karate, wushu, or kinda course. You, or your boyfriend must have some tricks in an arsenal to fight. A missed chance to beat those bastards in time - is a way of giving them another chances (they could try their tricks on someone else later!). That's why kick 'em all down!! I do like karate. Love Jackie Chan movies. Would love to do what he does and keep people away from me. I think guys would be scared of a jackie chan girl. Some would, I would be thinking "wow she is flexible..." |
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Post by Elizabeth on Jul 16, 2019 3:32:54 GMT
I do like karate. Love Jackie Chan movies. Would love to do what he does and keep people away from me. I think guys would be scared of a jackie chan girl. Some would, I would be thinking "wow she is flexible..." So best to do the angry and tense look? |
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Post by cynicsanonymous on Jul 16, 2019 7:39:19 GMT
suck it up and deal with it... you are hot and unwanted attention comes with it, would you rather be ugly and unoticed?
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Post by Lone Wanderer on Jul 16, 2019 16:05:43 GMT
1. Learn the "art of ignoring random people". Your face, behavior and body language should scream "NO".
OR
2. Since you are a nice and beautiful person, live with it. As I always said, your "being nice 24/7" philosophy could bring many troubles to your life.
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