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Post by DKTrav88 on Aug 10, 2018 18:35:59 GMT
Where are you looking for women? The local pub? The yoga class? The local college? The grocery store? The mall? The adult video store? The local sex shop? The gym?
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Post by runswithsharks on Aug 20, 2018 17:14:21 GMT
Where are you looking for women? The local pub? The yoga class? The local college? The grocery store? The mall? The adult video store? The local sex shop? The gym? This is the age old question of knowing ones self. I would say you're never going to find a girl if you're looking. Women don't operate that way. You're better off just being yourself, doing what you like to do, when you like to do it. There will be women around, as long as you're not a shut in neet. One day you'll chat it up and it'll go from there. Only problem with this is that women don't understand the concept of being single anymore. So you're going to have to accept the concept of "settling". IF YOU MUST ACTIVELY PURSUE A WOMEN, I would strongly outweigh the pros and cons of where you meet them. The stereotypes usually apply so if you notice something about where you met them, get out while you still can. Biggest advice is your approach and confidence is more important then the location. Women are willing to jump from man to man but they need clear proof you're better then what they already have. You get one chance to make the impression so you have to make it count. If you're not willing to wait, dating websites that you have to pay for are the way to go. It cuts out all the fakes and other random BS. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 17:16:43 GMT
Where are you looking for women? The local pub? The yoga class? The local college? The grocery store? The mall? The adult video store? The local sex shop? The gym? This is the age old question of knowing ones self. I would say you're never going to find a girl if you're looking. Women don't operate that way. You're better off just being yourself, doing what you like to do, when you like to do it. There will be women around, as long as you're not a shut in neet. One day you'll chat it up and it'll go from there. Only problem with this is that women don't understand the concept of being single anymore. So you're going to have to accept the concept of "settling". IF YOU MUST ACTIVELY PURSUE A WOMEN, I would strongly outweigh the pros and cons of where you meet them. The stereotypes usually apply so if you notice something about where you met them, get out while you still can. Biggest advice is your approach and confidence is more important then the location. Women are willing to jump from man to man but they need clear proof you're better then what they already have. You get one chance to make the impression so you have to make it count. If you're not willing to wait, dating websites that you have to pay for are the way to go. It cuts out all the fakes and other random BS. Chasing it is faking it. |
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Post by runswithsharks on Aug 20, 2018 17:23:10 GMT
Eodnhoj7... Amen to that.  |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 17:43:51 GMT
What unimportant men am I supposedly teasing and teasing about what? The one's you probably dragged along in a relationship knowing there was no future in it. Who? I avoid such relationships in general unless God tells me one is good for me then things start looking differently  |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 17:46:42 GMT
The one's you probably dragged along in a relationship knowing there was no future in it. Who? I avoid such relationships in general unless God tells me one is good for me then things start looking differently And what differentiates God's voice from your own? |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 17:53:02 GMT
Who? I avoid such relationships in general unless God tells me one is good for me then things start looking differently And what differentiates God's voice from your own? Difference is He knows who's better for me than I would know myself since He's all knowing. So if He doesn't tell me anymore I don't even bother with such relationships. Shrug |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 18:00:22 GMT
And what differentiates God's voice from your own? Difference is He knows who's better for me than I would know myself since He's all knowing. So if He doesn't tell me anymore I don't even bother with such relationships.  You did not answer the question...how do you know you are listening to God or your own voice...it is not a question of whether he speaks to you or not, but what is the difference between his voice and your own? |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 18:03:36 GMT
Difference is He knows who's better for me than I would know myself since He's all knowing. So if He doesn't tell me anymore I don't even bother with such relationships. You did not answer the question...how do you know you are listening to God or your own voice...it is not a question of whether he speaks to you or not, but what is the difference between his voice and your own? What do you mean? My voice doesn't care to date. But His voice always gives me suggestions in life on any area in life really. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 18:05:01 GMT
You did not answer the question...how do you know you are listening to God or your own voice...it is not a question of whether he speaks to you or not, but what is the difference between his voice and your own? What do you mean? My voice doesn't care to date. But His voice always gives me suggestions in life on any area in life really. So what you are saying is you don't want to date...but God keeps giving you suggestions to date and you are refusing them? |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 18:08:55 GMT
What do you mean? My voice doesn't care to date. But His voice always gives me suggestions in life on any area in life really. So what you are saying is you don't want to date...but God keeps giving you suggestions to date and you are refusing them? I'm saying it's not a big deal to since there's no commandment to marry even. But God promises a hope and a future so He will always provide things and we have choices of course. God prefers people not to marry anyway. If you remember it says good to marry but better not to. Either way is fine. Just when you don't marry you focus more on God as it says and God prefers that more.  |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 18:12:58 GMT
So what you are saying is you don't want to date...but God keeps giving you suggestions to date and you are refusing them? I'm saying it's not a big deal to since there's no commandment to marry even. But God promises a hope and a future so He will always provide things and we have choices of course. God prefers people not to marry anyway. If you remember it says good to marry but better not to. Either way is fine. Just when you don't marry you focus more on God as it says and God prefers that more. You don't owe me any explanation princess...your relationship issues are between you and God. And what is it you do to "focus" on God outside of marriage? You see this is what I don't get...from an outside perspective. You don't want to marry...fine...but you date all these men who according to you want to marry you and yet you will not give them the opportunity. So why drag a man through a relationship when you have no intention of marrying. It appears, from an outside perspective, that you have some "list" inside your head (that I am not even sure you know you have) and any percieved absence on the "list of perfection" automatically equates that man being "outside of God's will for marriage"...or your will...whatever. It just seems like you cannot make up your own mind and then blame God's will. |
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Post by Διαμονδ on Aug 20, 2018 18:18:47 GMT
So what you are saying is you don't want to date...but God keeps giving you suggestions to date and you are refusing them? I'm saying it's not a big deal to since there's no commandment to marry even. But God promises a hope and a future so He will always provide things and we have choices of course. God prefers people not to marry anyway. If you remember it says good to marry but better not to. Either way is fine. Just when you don't marry you focus more on God as it says and God prefers that more.  -And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth- Gen. 1:28 |
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 18:20:51 GMT
I'm saying it's not a big deal to since there's no commandment to marry even. But God promises a hope and a future so He will always provide things and we have choices of course. God prefers people not to marry anyway. If you remember it says good to marry but better not to. Either way is fine. Just when you don't marry you focus more on God as it says and God prefers that more. You don't owe me any explanation princess...your relationship issues are between you and God. And what is it you do to "focus" on God outside of marriage? You see this is what I don't get...from an outside perspective. You don't want to marry...fine...but you date all these men who according to you want to marry you and yet you will not give them the opportunity. So why drag a man through a relationship when you have no intention of marrying. It appears, from an outside perspective, that you have some "list" inside your head (that I am not even sure you know you have) and any percieved absence on the "list of perfection" automatically equates that man being "outside of God's will for marriage"...or your will...whatever. It just seems like you cannot make up your own mind and then blame God's will. I don't have relationship issues. Drag? . No, I'm getting married that's why I'm in a relationship. And it'll happen when the time has come. I don't do list. I couldn't even do notes in class in school or university. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2018 18:21:01 GMT
Am I the only guy here that would not date Elizabeth if she was the last woman on earth?
I can here is now "John you are so cruel"..."What an asshole"..."You just can't get a woman".
Well...
The "John you are so cruel" can be placed in the Alto section.
"What an asshole" can be part of the base.
"You just can't get a woman" up front please.
(taking place in front of the orchestra)
"On the count of three..."
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Post by Elizabeth on Aug 20, 2018 18:21:33 GMT
I'm saying it's not a big deal to since there's no commandment to marry even. But God promises a hope and a future so He will always provide things and we have choices of course. God prefers people not to marry anyway. If you remember it says good to marry but better not to. Either way is fine. Just when you don't marry you focus more on God as it says and God prefers that more. -And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth- Gen. 1:28 The earth is already been multiplied and filled! This part is done. |
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