How do you expect your spouse to act?

I've got lots of Bibles on my phone actually

The element of oneness is the foremost ingredient. Whether u plan to marry or have her as her girlfriend, u two are no more separate individuals but one. Clinging onto selfhood must be avoided at all costs and all matters should be comfortably discussed.

Carrying on with the element of oneness, the income should never be treated like of separate individuals but its for the home, not to say u have the right on the other person earnings but such matters should be totally transparent.
Its not about my money your money

Never recall pass arguments.

Build patience and move on.

Keep your family matters between u two only. If u share it out then it becomes their problem not yours.

Consideration of the other person is more important than loving him. U may whole heartedly love him to but if u don't pay attention to details as what he or she likes, being aware of her personality and actually understanding the person in depth to fulfill the element of consideration.

Give her space and whole heartedly trust her. Such an ease always makes a woman more faithful towards you rather than always keeping an eye on her..


Sacrifice.. There should be no hesitation in sacrificing something that makes her uncomfortable. As your love is bigger than yourself.

Apart from my own thoughts above, following is something handy too


Their best interest is in your best interest
And your best interest is in their best interest

Closesness is the primary priority, this only creates the only true safety in a relationship.

You can't hurt something that u take it part of ureself with hurting urself.

When u clinge to ur self hood it gives rise to power struggles. Committing to a relationship is the only way ur relationship will feel good. The war between selves end.