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Post by humblelearner84 on Dec 26, 2017 11:38:38 GMT
I’m broke and love a beautiful girl but will she love me for who I am not my materialistic possessions
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Post by khaos on Dec 29, 2017 18:37:30 GMT
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Post by Supermentalita on Dec 29, 2017 18:38:39 GMT
But don't worry man, non girl ever stayed with me in the past few years... I must say I am not broke but I have not much money to offer them. It shouldn't matter. Just tell them the following and all will be fine:  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2017 16:25:01 GMT
More than money and looks, usually girls are bothered about the future of their kids. So if you can ensure that you can take care of the kids, then she will stick with you. The solid guy with money (it is easy to understand if he have good job, own business, wears good clothes, has expensive car etc...) definetly can take care about kids better than dude without job, homeless etc... And beautiful-strong guy probably have better genetics for future kids, than some lame bald overweight disabled person, this is how the girl think. She even not obliged to think about it consciously, love is about instincts so nature will force her to think so subconsciously. When guys are complaining about "gold diggers" it shows that they are just non-educated, this is how nature works. It's comes from cave times men's work was to get resources from aggressive outside world. Woman cooked in the cave and watched for the kids, between her/kids & outside wild nature stands the man who risks his life when goes hunting & defends the cave. This is how nature really planned the roles of man & woman. For woman is important how much resources the man can get from nature (earn money in modern world) & how he looks (genetics for kids, slightly less important). For man the most important the beauty of his potental wife, it's like 90% of success for women. We guys really don't care how many higher university diplomas you girls have or what job you occupy  I do.. If she is weak in the upper story i cant bear her for 2 mins. Ive come across incredible looking girls but u just cant have any meaningful conversation. All they care about talking about other ppl, gossip and other drama. looks do matter, its more towards how she styles herself up without looking stupid or overdone. Many women are not gifted with best looks but they look more presentable as how they dress themselves up. To women, depth and a powerful presence of how accommodate urself in the society appeals more than anything. Kinda like the caveman example Man needs a woman who has unshattered confidence in his man and repels it out and give her a feeling of oneness. Utmost faith in his abilities that he can take on the world and be successful. Hence u have the saying behind a successful there is a woman. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2017 16:26:20 GMT
Btw girl in the second pic is hot
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Post by alexperplexe on Dec 31, 2017 3:10:13 GMT
I am pretty stunned by the fact that nobody can explain what is love. Depending of the level of entanglement, it would (or maybe should) appear all kinds of priority. There isn't true love, just an endearment making the partner ready to outlook some of your defects, some of the challenges a relationship can create. Of course, men and women are equally responsible and accountable in the relationship. No?
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 31, 2017 3:33:44 GMT
Love isn't just overlooking defects. Love is willing to stick through not just the good parts of the relationship but the bad too. Life throws out many things and the couple that gets through it is strong and that love will never end. Love is the "till death do we part".
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Post by alexperplexe on Dec 31, 2017 4:48:14 GMT
I never say overlooking the defects only. But when life is throwing some challenges, it is a time for all parts to evaluate and decide where this is going. You are reducing love to a carnal association. If you have kids, you realize that the feeling between the different individuals goes beyond the death. And if you are lucky, you can also find this kind of depth with a partner. But like I mentioned in the first post, it would be wise to define love.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2018 14:18:41 GMT
As we are talking in terms of realtionship
Their best interest is in your best interest
And your best interest is in their best interest
There isn't anything like, accepting them no matyer what..just think how much room it has damage. We just tend to go with our ways, expecting the other to just bear up with us.
Closesness is the primary priority, this only creates the only true safety in a relationship.
You can't hurt something that u take it part of ureself with hurting urself.
When u clinge to ur self hood it gives rise to power struggles. Committing to a relationship is the only way ur relationship will feel good. The war between selves end.
Basically when ure able to strike "We" instead of two different personalties that only endures everything the life throws at them..
I wanted to see the We in them, but walked out when i could nt see that developing. It would have been irrational.. Consideration not love sustains the relationship
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Post by AssumedKarma on Jan 2, 2018 21:35:40 GMT
I would not worry about love if your only concern about it is your own personal finances. Loyalty is something you put into a relationship, no matter your financial status, you can make all the money in the world and still be cheated on. If your significant other see's your struggle and you still strive for a better life for the both of you, then she has no reason to not be loyal. You cannot control other people's feelings, but you can control how you view yourself.
All in all, live your life virtuously, and love will come to you.
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Post by Διαμονδ on Jan 2, 2018 21:45:38 GMT
humblelearner84 - Where are you!?  |
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Post by Elizabeth on Jan 2, 2018 21:54:36 GMT
I would not worry about love if your only concern about it is your own personal finances. Loyalty is something you put into a relationship, no matter your financial status, you can make all the money in the world and still be cheated on. If your significant other see's your struggle and you still strive for a better life for the both of you, then she has no reason to not be loyal. You cannot control other people's feelings, but you can control how you view yourself. All in all, live your life virtuously, and love will come to you. Nice. Been in a few relationships to know?  |
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Post by AssumedKarma on Jan 2, 2018 22:21:20 GMT
I would not worry about love if your only concern about it is your own personal finances. Loyalty is something you put into a relationship, no matter your financial status, you can make all the money in the world and still be cheated on. If your significant other see's your struggle and you still strive for a better life for the both of you, then she has no reason to not be loyal. You cannot control other people's feelings, but you can control how you view yourself. All in all, live your life virtuously, and love will come to you. Nice. Been in a few relationships to know? I guess so :p You just gotta be happy with yourself |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2018 18:53:49 GMT
I really wish you to be loved by that girls, 'cause love is higher than any material values.
My situation is the same to yours, besides my 'beloved girl' hates me and doesn't want to get any compromise... :(
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