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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Aug 2, 2023 10:31:18 GMT
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Clovis Merovingian
Prestige/VIP 
Elder
Posts: 2,694 
Likes: 1,757
Meta-Ethnicity: Anglo-American
Ethnicity: Deep Southerner
Country: My State and my Region are my country
Region: The Deep South
Location: South Carolina
Ancestry: Gaelic (patrilineal), English, Ulster Scots/Scots Irish, Scottish, German, Swiss German, Swedish, Manx, Finnish, Norman French/Quebecois (distantly), Dutch (distantly)
Taxonomy: Borreby/Alpine/ Nordid mix
Y-DNA: R-S660/R-DF109
mtDNA: T1a1
Politics: Conservative
Religion: Christian
Hero: Andrew Jackson, Thomas Jefferson, James K. Polk
Age: 30
Philosophy: I try to find out what is true as best I can.
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Aug 4, 2023 20:28:52 GMT
I'm not afraid of extroverts. I actually get along with them swimmingly if they are talking about something that interests me, but most people just want to do small talk and talk about things that they cannot possibly care about and that they have to know that I don't care about either, so I don't understand why anyone is wasting their time.
I remember seeing a youtube comment by an autistic woman saying that it's hard for her to go on dates because if the man is not willing to talk about the golden age of piracy for three hours it isn't going to work. And I was thinking, "Wow, that actually sounds like a lovely evening."
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Aug 5, 2023 5:26:06 GMT
I'm not afraid of extroverts. I actually get along with them swimmingly if they are talking about something that interests me, but most people just want to do small talk and talk about things that they cannot possibly care about and that they have to know that I don't care about either, so I don't understand why anyone is wasting their time. I remember seeing a youtube comment by an autistic woman saying that it's hard for her to go on dates because if the man is not willing to talk about the golden age of piracy for three hours it isn't going to work. And I was thinking, "Wow, that actually sounds like a lovely evening." With your skills you can support a talk. In a case of mine it's fair about logic and philosophy. Be able to keep sparking the interest for a long time is rather an art. As for that woman, you know, when I was a kid I visited not once my grandparents, and I was trying to help them with something, or even to support them if they were in depression, or kinda. It might be that if that woman had children or grandchildren, or they were spending more time with her, it would be nice for her even if no piracy talks were there. While dating... I don't know what would I advice her. I don't know, but I guess if people love each other they can talk about anything. It's it just the same as having a friend, with whom you discuss whatever themes. I didn't have friends, or even if there were friends of mine, the friendship never lasted for a long time. Personally I guess I wouldn't have any friends at all if I hadn't visited a kindergarten and school. It was like a forced need to have friends, or else things could go crazier. So, I learned one trick from those times – how to try to be alone and with that how to nice and friendly: among many things I should try to be nice to people sincerely, but never completely trust to them. Must say it wasn't a foolish or incomplete thought, I don't think so. There were people who betrayed me, so it was better to hide in my personal inner shell in case things went badly. I guess it's not because many people are bad, oh no, I guess it's Diablo's snoopings to set people against each just I other. Even rational thinking doesn't help. That's why the best friend (of course if it's suitable to say that) is God. And sometimes I think I would be smarter and had less problems if my prayers kept be as warm as my child's ones. So, you know, it might be only an assumption, but what if introverts had been marked by God as such people who touched to the Spirit? I didn't mean here any spirituality or something, no. Let me explain: when for example an introvert child plays alone the child doesn't play exactly alone, no it's more like playing with angels. Or when the child is alone it is a talk to God. Who knows? |
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Clovis Merovingian
Prestige/VIP
Elder
Posts: 2,694
Likes: 1,757
Meta-Ethnicity: Anglo-American
Ethnicity: Deep Southerner
Country: My State and my Region are my country
Region: The Deep South
Location: South Carolina
Ancestry: Gaelic (patrilineal), English, Ulster Scots/Scots Irish, Scottish, German, Swiss German, Swedish, Manx, Finnish, Norman French/Quebecois (distantly), Dutch (distantly)
Taxonomy: Borreby/Alpine/ Nordid mix
Y-DNA: R-S660/R-DF109
mtDNA: T1a1
Politics: Conservative
Religion: Christian
Hero: Andrew Jackson, Thomas Jefferson, James K. Polk
Age: 30
Philosophy: I try to find out what is true as best I can.
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Aug 8, 2023 7:55:31 GMT
I'm not afraid of extroverts. I actually get along with them swimmingly if they are talking about something that interests me, but most people just want to do small talk and talk about things that they cannot possibly care about and that they have to know that I don't care about either, so I don't understand why anyone is wasting their time. I remember seeing a youtube comment by an autistic woman saying that it's hard for her to go on dates because if the man is not willing to talk about the golden age of piracy for three hours it isn't going to work. And I was thinking, "Wow, that actually sounds like a lovely evening." With your skills you can support a talk. In a case of mine it's fair about logic and philosophy. Be able to keep sparking the interest for a long time is rather an art. As for that woman, you know, when I was a kid I visited not once my grandparents, and I was trying to help them with something, or even to support them if they were in depression, or kinda. It might be that if that woman had children or grandchildren, or they were spending more time with her, it would be nice for her even if no piracy talks were there. While dating... I don't know what would I advice her. I don't know, but I guess if people love each other they can talk about anything. It's it just the same as having a friend, with whom you discuss whatever themes. I didn't have friends, or even if there were friends of mine, the friendship never lasted for a long time. Personally I guess I wouldn't have any friends at all if I hadn't visited a kindergarten and school. It was like a forced need to have friends, or else things could go crazier. So, I learned one trick from those times – how to try to be alone and with that how to nice and friendly: among many things I should try to be nice to people sincerely, but never completely trust to them. Must say it wasn't a foolish or incomplete thought, I don't think so. There were people who betrayed me, so it was better to hide in my personal inner shell in case things went badly. I guess it's not because many people are bad, oh no, I guess it's Diablo's snoopings to set people against each just I other. Even rational thinking doesn't help. That's why the best friend (of course if it's suitable to say that) is God. And sometimes I think I would be smarter and had less problems if my prayers kept be as warm as my child's ones. So, you know, it might be only an assumption, but what if introverts had been marked by God as such people who touched to the Spirit? I didn't mean here any spirituality or something, no. Let me explain: when for example an introvert child plays alone the child doesn't play exactly alone, no it's more like playing with angels. Or when the child is alone it is a talk to God. Who knows? I understand your issues regarding trust. I have them in spades. Every human alive I think is an evil person who deludes themselves into thinking that they are good by making excuses, making exceptions for themselves regarding their moral code, and doing mental gymnastics to justify their actions. Humanity needs to delude themselves in this fashion because if they understood what they truly were like they could not live with themselves. |
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Aug 8, 2023 11:38:21 GMT
With your skills you can support a talk. In a case of mine it's fair about logic and philosophy. Be able to keep sparking the interest for a long time is rather an art. As for that woman, you know, when I was a kid I visited not once my grandparents, and I was trying to help them with something, or even to support them if they were in depression, or kinda. It might be that if that woman had children or grandchildren, or they were spending more time with her, it would be nice for her even if no piracy talks were there. While dating... I don't know what would I advice her. I don't know, but I guess if people love each other they can talk about anything. It's it just the same as having a friend, with whom you discuss whatever themes. I didn't have friends, or even if there were friends of mine, the friendship never lasted for a long time. Personally I guess I wouldn't have any friends at all if I hadn't visited a kindergarten and school. It was like a forced need to have friends, or else things could go crazier. So, I learned one trick from those times – how to try to be alone and with that how to nice and friendly: among many things I should try to be nice to people sincerely, but never completely trust to them. Must say it wasn't a foolish or incomplete thought, I don't think so. There were people who betrayed me, so it was better to hide in my personal inner shell in case things went badly. I guess it's not because many people are bad, oh no, I guess it's Diablo's snoopings to set people against each just I other. Even rational thinking doesn't help. That's why the best friend (of course if it's suitable to say that) is God. And sometimes I think I would be smarter and had less problems if my prayers kept be as warm as my child's ones. So, you know, it might be only an assumption, but what if introverts had been marked by God as such people who touched to the Spirit? I didn't mean here any spirituality or something, no. Let me explain: when for example an introvert child plays alone the child doesn't play exactly alone, no it's more like playing with angels. Or when the child is alone it is a talk to God. Who knows? I understand your issues regarding trust. I have them in spades. Every human alive I think is an evil person who deludes themselves into thinking that they are good by making excuses, making exceptions for themselves regarding their moral code, and doing mental gymnastics to justify their actions. Humanity needs to delude themselves in this fashion because if they understood what they truly were like they could not live with themselves. Is the humanity doomed then? This thought of yours reminded me of Lovecraft "The Outcast", the tale of which tells us about a lone monster by everyone, who had never known of his look, and that he was a monster, and who lived in the abandoned castle. Accidentally the monster escaped his lair, and came to the party in another castle nearo, which walls were covered with mirrors. As soon as he came people there started screaming terribly, and ran away fast. The monster couldn't get what caused such a panic. Wandering the hall of that new castle he was scared to bones by the look of a frightfully monster just in from of him. Soon he realised that the ugly monster was him. Well, I don't believe every human is like that monster. A person was created as an image of God. Social life isn't so positive for each person. I am sure that without many sinful things people would be better; big cities, noisy ones, etc usually seed the roots of evil within their communities if they are flooded with mobs, criminals, and fools. One person is such places feels a pressure, not only temptations. Unfortunately, not everyone can fight against them, so in the end people fall. |
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