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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Aug 27, 2022 16:37:25 GMT
What is decency? Decency :: x is decent regarding to y, if x is opinion and it's objectively true regarding to y. For instance, if I think that the Earth isn't flat, and such an idea is objectively truth to all of the scientists, then my opinion is decent. What is sincere love? Sincere love :: x sincerely loves y, if x's love to y is unconditioned, or that there are no objective events for x to stop loving y, except for x's decision only.
A person can love you by one's own decision, and the person doesn't consider any circumstances or conditionals to love you, like a person X loves Y if Y has an excellent apartment, good job, nice taste, sense of humor, etc, unless Y will loose all that. And as soon as Y has got all these X loves Y. I guess this path is really bad. In this case X does not truly, love, so it's just mechanical, circumstantial, eventual, unreal, and that's why it's just toying oneself that is - not decent for a person.
Another story is that X loves Y not matter what. So, Y may response to X, and in this case X's love to Y is perfect (in general), or Y may not response. And if Y's love is conditional and insincere that X is right in his true love, and X's love is decent. While if Y's love is sincere, but Y doesn't love X - so this time it's just a bad fate for X, however X's feelings are decent. And, Y's feelings are also decent, while his love is directed to someone else.
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