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Post by srijaninja on Dec 30, 2017 6:58:15 GMT
Does having kids steal your freedom? Or is it worth it? Anyone with any relevant experience?
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 30, 2017 7:06:50 GMT
I wouldn't necessarily say it steals your freedom because you can still do everything you did before you had kids but after having kids it just might postpone your time on your freedom by giving you more responsibilities to do. That's my thought. I have no kids though.
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Dec 30, 2017 7:32:23 GMT
Post by Lone Wanderer on Dec 30, 2017 7:32:23 GMT
If you have a single life mindset, then marriage and having kids may bring serious issues to your life. For example, you may think you are not free as much as when you were single or you may think you have lost your freedom, leisure or free time, hubbies and many other things.
Kids affect your life for sure. So if you are not ready for them, then don't create troubles for yourself.
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Post by srijaninja on Dec 30, 2017 7:55:44 GMT
Oh no I'm just 19. This was totally an introspective question.
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Post by cherrydollkasey on Jan 9, 2018 6:33:10 GMT
Does having kids steal your freedom? Or is it worth it? Anyone with any relevant experience? well it kinda does in some aspect. I have 3, a ten year old a 5 year old and a one month old. If you are not willing to grow up and take on responsibilities then yes kids would most definitely take your freedom. But having kids is totally worth it in my opinion. They are a definite blessing. My first two were an oops. I had my first one at 18 and it really made me grow up. No more parties and b.s.. And having kids at a young age and alone helps you grow up as well. I'm now 30 and have a newborn with my fiance she was planned. If your willing to grow up and put yourself aside kids are absolutely wonderful. If your not willing then I'd say kids are not for you.
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Jan 27, 2018 16:38:35 GMT
Post by Polaris on Jan 27, 2018 16:38:35 GMT
kids steal your freedom, it is true but they give your life meaning
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Jan 27, 2018 16:48:03 GMT
Post by Διαμονδ on Jan 27, 2018 16:48:03 GMT
kids steal your freedom, it is true but they give your life meaning Uff! Everyone has his own understanding of the meaning of life...
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Jan 27, 2018 16:55:42 GMT
Post by Polaris on Jan 27, 2018 16:55:42 GMT
kids steal your freedom, it is true but they give your life meaning Uff! Everyone has his own understanding of the meaning of life... exactly!!!
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Feb 8, 2018 23:06:09 GMT
Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2018 23:06:09 GMT
I think we are steel the freedom from ourself if we don't care about children. Sooner or later everyone starts understanding the importance of parenting of kids.
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