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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Nov 18, 2022 12:07:57 GMT
To have and to hold for richer, for poorer and in sickness and in health as long as you both shall live?
Do you swear to love each other
and to have and to hold for richer,
in sorrow and in joy,
in wealth and in poverty,
in sickness and in health,
until death do you parts?
I think no marriages long as well as any love. It's only temporary. So, no swears are needed.
I wonder do we still marriages at all? Why do we need them, if love is temporary?
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Post by Elizabeth on Nov 25, 2022 6:19:08 GMT
Yes. Or don't marry. Seek things that you don't need to be lasting is everything outside of marriage.
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Nov 25, 2022 8:35:09 GMT
Yes. Or don't marry. Seek things that you don't need to be lasting is everything outside of marriage. Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. |
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Post by xxxxxxxxx on Mar 10, 2023 21:16:46 GMT
Yes. Or don't marry. Seek things that you don't need to be lasting is everything outside of marriage. Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. If the love where sincere then they would accept their differences. Living together without marriage only points to an absence of complete acceptance thus an absence of love. |
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Post by MAYA-EL on Mar 12, 2023 2:42:42 GMT
Yes. Or don't marry. Seek things that you don't need to be lasting is everything outside of marriage. Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. Most people find out a few years into the marriage that they don't love or even know the other person anymore but this is bound to happen if the 2 people don't work on changing together In 15yrs you will be a different person then you are right now because are life experiences shape us so you have to make effort to add your spouse into your life constantly because if you go to work and only see and talk to them at night as your getting ready for bed for 10 minutes then they weren't part of that other 23hrs of your day and so depending on what you do and what they do for a living you can grow apart very fast Theirs more to love then just the immature love that Hollywood tells us their is The love drunk part of love is the smallest part of a relationship yet people only want that part and discard the other person soon as it's gone and it will be gone I promise you that |
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Mar 12, 2023 8:34:59 GMT
Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. Most people find out a few years into the marriage that they don't love or even know the other person anymore but this is bound to happen if the 2 people don't work on changing together In 15yrs you will be a different person then you are right now because are life experiences shape us so you have to make effort to add your spouse into your life constantly because if you go to work and only see and talk to them at night as your getting ready for bed for 10 minutes then they weren't part of that other 23hrs of your day and so depending on what you do and what they do for a living you can grow apart very fast Theirs more to love then just the immature love that Hollywood tells us their is The love drunk part of love is the smallest part of a relationship yet people only want that part and discard the other person soon as it's gone and it will be gone I promise you that Without a single doubt I trust you completely here. It's truly good to hear someone is explaining this. How wonderful would it be if more men listened to you or people like you! What do you think of divorce as a good thing? Often people blame the divorce as a fact, but on the other hand there are no meta or general rules that two people should live together the whole life. Polygamy or kinda are practicing among animals, fishes, and insects, so nothing unusual is here. Yeah no doubt that "love" becomes interpreted wrongly. Sometimes people start loving each other more and more intensively when they are far from each other, while as soon as they've been united the problems of together life are getting into the one big trouble. |
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Post by rexa on Apr 9, 2023 21:39:17 GMT
Yes. Or don't marry. Seek things that you don't need to be lasting is everything outside of marriage. Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. Oh wow. You spoke in favour of Alabama. No one need to only bang his cousins or so to have a successful marriage. Love is not temporary. It is either present or absent. What humans experience is an enrichment of the soul. The sub consciousness taking over for the sake of reproduction. We live in capitalistic society where love has little chance to thrive where there is a lot of tendency to be selfish. Marriages last through the drive to sustain it, that's why you still see long lasting dreadful marriages. Many people marry for socio economic reasons. Patience and compassion are the only two ingredients that makes and sustains a healthy relationship. I've seen people know each other for ages but let it go when times get tough. |
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Post by rexa on Apr 9, 2023 21:43:19 GMT
Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. If the love where sincere then they would accept their differences. Living together without marriage only points to an absence of complete acceptance thus an absence of love. Or perhaps some see it as pointless. If we Wana spend time together why go through all the paperwork. Guess people in stone age never loved according to you |
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Apr 10, 2023 16:50:04 GMT
Before the marriage lovebirds usually spend merely a year to get each other closer and to challenge their relationship. However, living in a marriage many years a wife and a husband might realize they are not fit to each other, and they are different. A year is too small to understand each other closer. I think that the true love is possible between those people who have been spending together almost their whole life. For instance, step cousins or a friend from childhood. I think the true relationship requires much more time to understand whether the love is sincerely true or not. Oh wow. You spoke in favour of Alabama. No one need to only bang his cousins or so to have a successful marriage. Love is not temporary. It is either present or absent. What humans experience is an enrichment of the soul. The sub consciousness taking over for the sake of reproduction. We live in capitalistic society where love has little chance to thrive where there is a lot of tendency to be selfish. Marriages last through the drive to sustain it, that's why you still see long lasting dreadful marriages. Many people marry for socio economic reasons. Patience and compassion are the only two ingredients that makes and sustains a healthy relationship. I've seen people know each other for ages but let it go when times get tough. You are absolutely right. That is impossible to disagree. The bad point is (for me) that it seems I'm the last romantic... :( That's almost impossible to find the true 2nd half of yours living in that fast running Universe of today. Still I hope there are other realities in which many things might be seen from another angle. |
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