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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Sept 15, 2022 17:24:16 GMT
Sex is stupid. Such sharlatans as Freud or Adler pushes such propaganda openly. Then many different followers appeared here and there, and spread it mostly among youth that the only reason for the ones were to have sex.
This is so stupid I reject to comment. The most positive way have always been to have a family and to manage it, to care about your relatives, and vice versa. Sex was just one of many elements, and not the main one.
Those propaganda addicted followers tried to convince mainly the youth that in different epoch different people practiced it, while we may see that those practicing ones were derelicts and whackos. Sane ones never practiced it.
My opinion is that today that sex propaganda transformed into different queer and same-sex theories for to keep that propaganda in juice. But now these theories have the sex as more weaker element, not as the primary.
The most dangerous as far as I see is to allow some "experts" of such fields to have authority. They never had it indeed, so no need to rely on it. Those "experts" are only to brainwash another youth's head completely.
To resist it it's not bad to keep traditions on, getting married, having children, uphold the basic important connections, and so on. Therefore sex is not the foundation of relationship, and it never was.
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Post by MAYA-EL on Sept 18, 2022 21:36:53 GMT
I completely agree I watched guys around me lose their minds trying to always get some tail and how girls would use guys for stuff and how the guys were spending all their money trying to keep them happy and hopefully get laid and I said to myself as a young teen "if I lose my virginity I will lose my damn mind just like these guys are" and so I decided to not have sex till marriage and I'm glad I did
You can't have a relationship that's as strong if you've had 100 woman break your heart and especially if you've slept with hundreds of woman you just can't because your numb and have so much baggage from your past that at best you can only hold them at arms distance let alone truly trust them
And nothing is left for you to have that's special between the 2 of you if the entire town has sleeps with both of you
I've only had my heart broken by 1 woman and that was before I met my wife and it hurt worse then anything I've ever felt so I can't imagine having that happen dozens of times
And having self control creates value and makes sex something special between the 2 of you as the saying goes "nothing truly valuable and worth having is easy to obtain"
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Post by Eugene 2.0 on Sept 18, 2022 23:10:54 GMT
I completely agree I watched guys around me lose their minds trying to always get some tail and how girls would use guys for stuff and how the guys were spending all their money trying to keep them happy and hopefully get laid and I said to myself as a young teen "if I lose my virginity I will lose my damn mind just like these guys are" and so I decided to not have sex till marriage and I'm glad I did You can't have a relationship that's as strong if you've had 100 woman break your heart and especially if you've slept with hundreds of woman you just can't because your numb and have so much baggage from your past that at best you can only hold them at arms distance let alone truly trust them And nothing is left for you to have that's special between the 2 of you if the entire town has sleeps with both of you I've only had my heart broken by 1 woman and that was before I met my wife and it hurt worse then anything I've ever felt so I can't imagine having that happen dozens of times And having self control creates value and makes sex something special between the 2 of you as the saying goes "nothing truly valuable and worth having is easy to obtain" Many decent people in history had difficult, or very difficult relationships with women. The wisest of those tried to build houses, factories, towns, cities, counties, while the foppish ones wasted their semen. I guess those last words of yours are truly true. The sacredly true.
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