Sad story... Poor kid... Why a 10-yo kid killed herself?!
I don't want to sound like a misanthrope, but I really dislike many people. Why? Because they lack many human traits (even basic instincts). Some people have no responsibility to their kids. They just produce child and that's all. No parenting, no healthy relation and interaction with their kids, no future...
People can blame politics all they want, but at the end of the day it all breaks down to "home".
The family structure is one of the key foundational structures to society. It forms not just the practical environment, where the child's key physical needs are met, but sets the child's perspective and key intellectual and spiritual formation.
The home is a foundation for civilization in one respect and personal growth in another, it is a center point of the human condition.
With the failure of the father figure in providing an atmosphere that gives boundaries and order to the child, the child becomes lost and effectively resorts to a path of destruction.
With the failure of the mother figure in providing a nurturing environment the child follows the same course.
Take either the father or the mother out, and an imbalance occurs where the child's future results in an imbalance effectively replicating the imbalance they observe at home.
A lack of responsibility put into the child reflects into the child and the child becomes irresponsible.
A form of division in the husband and wife, and the child becomes tense and unstable with a deep sense of ingrained guilt (worthlessness) due to his/her composition as both the father and the mother.
This sense of "guilt", as an absence of value in the eyes of the child, in turn becomes embodied within the child causing further complexity in the child's identity that will direct the course of the child's process of individuation later in life.
This may reflect in an over passive victim mentality where the child becomes over dependent on some relationship, etc, or Express itself in a tyrannical or domineering view of a world where the child effectively seeks to "overcome"
Thus necessitating a healthy relationship between both father and mother as critically necessary within the child's development for the sake of the child.
The child's sense of meaninglessness reflects, in part on the parent's, while dually on the society which reflects a multiplicitous version of this family dynamic in the respects that "it takes a village to raise a child".
In state of extreme neglect on behalf of society and the family unit, the child becomes inherently formless and undirected. It's energies are directed towards an sense of self destruction, in certain respects, to annihilate the bonds of its identity.
Suicide is a self directed formfof annihilating the bonds of neglect the child percieves that effectively bind it in a sense of meaningless chaos. The school shootings observe an outer projection of this percieved "enslavement".
Neglect is a set Of Prison Bars.
