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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 27, 2017 22:42:07 GMT
What do you think?
I say it can easily be done. Plus I grew up in a village with only brothers for siblings, my relatives next door only had male kids, and the kid across the street was a guy. So, I grew up playing with guys all the time, usually soccer with them. I had to ask for permission to go to a girl friends house since none were close enough. Therefore, I would see mostly my friends who were girls at school. Now, I have about half guy friends and half girl friends. If I need to talk to a friend, about 70% of the time I will ask my guy friends. So, growing up with more guy friends helped be indifferent to both genders and see both as good support groups.
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Post by BabyShark on Mar 27, 2018 17:55:46 GMT
I think yes so long as neither one wants more than friendship with the other.
I had lots of brothers so I'm used to and comfortable around male energy and competitiveness and humor.
It can easily be or get complicated if there is one way or mutual attraction but you can't be together or aren't actually a good fit as life partners.
In my experience, women with brothers and men with sisters are much more likely to see the opposite gender as potential friend material versus just something to marry or use for satisfying physical desire.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2018 16:31:54 GMT
Firstly, anyone in this day and age who doesn't think that platonic male-female friendships are possible probably have to re-evaluate themselves as a person IMO. It shouldn't be that difficult to not want to hook up with everyone of the opposite sex that you regularly communicate with. Granted, you might find someone who you resonate with at a different level from others, and that might stop being platonic. That's natural. But there is no way that happens to every person of the opposite sex you meet. That's just not healthy. Second, having had to mix in with a whole range of people at university in the UK, I personally think that friendship groups of mixed genders are just better. Kinda applies to finding housemates as well. Living with three other guys, male only groups did nothing but talk about sports and get stoned. Also having lived with three girls in another house, I swear to god they saw me as "the enemy". It wasn't fun. Mixed-gender friendship groups just end up being the most interesting to be a part of. Most laughs too. This all being said, growing up, I never had many friends at school at all, and while I was at uni, I ended up being a social butterfly that moved between social groups but never really becoming a permanent member of any one group. I just knew and got along with (almost) everyone but I was never anyone's "best friend" as such. The last paragraph. Applies to me as well
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2018 16:33:02 GMT
Queen made this thread to see which ones can be trusted 😛
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2018 16:57:15 GMT
This can never be an objective question to begin with.
Owing to the factors invloved. They may or they may not. Drawing a tendency towards a particular gender isnt justified,like it was different in my case. It is simply dependant, for example overwhelmingly spending time with just one friend or having just one in your life the percentage is vert high and vice versa.
Normally if u become mentally mature, u are more in control of which head to use considering when polygamy comes into question or not to think of poppin any cheery which is already sitting on a cAke
Finally into the third perspective, some just dont want to be friends and just wana hook up.
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Post by Elizabeth on Apr 21, 2018 21:54:25 GMT
Queen made this thread to see which ones can be trusted 😛 Loooooooooool
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Apr 23, 2018 1:57:28 GMT
Ummm, why not?
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Post by Elizabeth on Apr 23, 2018 2:03:35 GMT
@unknown I'm also taking good notes on that . Half joke.
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Apr 23, 2018 3:56:33 GMT
@unknown I'm also taking good notes on that . Half joke. Ah, you don't have to worry about me. I don't even call you Queen.
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Post by Elizabeth on Apr 23, 2018 4:32:56 GMT
@unknown I'm also taking good notes on that . Half joke. Ah, you don't have to worry about me. I don't even call you Queen. no it's not that. I'm using trust in another way to look around. Just looking for a possible future moderator. That's all Shrug
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Post by just10sp on Apr 23, 2018 4:43:12 GMT
@unknown I'm also taking good notes on that . Half joke. Ah, you don't have to worry about me. I don't even call you Queen. I refrain from that as well. I called her Queen one time. ;p I have had two girls in my life, one Princess and one Queen. They were the only girls I have ever been friends with, and I dated them both! Muahahaha, the only two girls I wanted to date. Sasha was my first girl as a friend and I saved myself for her. I started dating at 15 and that took me to 19. At 20 I met Lisa. Considering half the girls liked me in school, not making friends with them is funny to me. I have been approached by three girls in a club who kept complimenting me and moving closer. I moved away each time I had the opportunity to have a threesome like three times and I never did. I literally have had two female friends. I have had girls stare at me nonstop while this hot black girl was grinding my back and I didn’t really notice her, you could tell she was in the mood. I’ve been asked out twice in the same week, and said no, and invited into every group st school and I decided to hang out with the outcasts. My best friend Riley had been with the most girls in school, between me and him 80% of the girls liked us. I was always dating someone I almost got married twice. Since then I think I have decided to never date again. So I am not really sure! My brother was the most popular kid in school (a different school), my sister hung out with the hottest group in school but she ended up leaving for the smartest group. Girls would talk to me randomly because of my brother in that school, and because of my sister. I had a crush on one girl and she was bouncing on my lap in front of everyone. Very awkward ;p It was so embarrassing I had to say my knee hurt. (Age 14) So I’m not really qualified to answer this question I think definitely! As I was in school I kind of hated girls being so sex driven, I think I was the only one who saw it that way because lots of girls fought for my attention. It was like an Animal Kingdom. In dreams I used to have fathers come to me asking me to marry their daughter because I was pure. I turned them all down. I have lost my innocence since then :p those who are pure in heart will see God, I used to see him almost every night.
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Post by just10sp on Apr 23, 2018 4:46:48 GMT
I wrote a rap one time it was something like The stack is high just like a story bro I just never said sorry so Wasn’t my fault this time I had to go But see driven in this vacancy My wipers been what’s blinding me Told this girl stop grinding me I’ll be the best that I can be These girls don’t know I’m shining me ;p
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Apr 23, 2018 5:14:33 GMT
Ah, you don't have to worry about me. I don't even call you Queen. I refrain from that as well. I called her Queen one time. ;p I have had two girls in my life, one Princess and one Queen. They were the only girls I have ever been friends with, and I dated them both! Muahahaha, the only two girls I wanted to date. Sasha was my first girl as a friend and I saved myself for her. I started dating at 15 and that took me to 19. At 20 I met Lisa. Considering half the girls liked me in school, not making friends with them is funny to me. I have been approached by three girls in a club who kept complimenting me and moving closer. I moved away each time I had the opportunity to have a threesome like three times and I never did. I literally have had two female friends. I have had girls stare at me nonstop while this hot black girl was grinding my back and I didn’t really notice her, you could tell she was in the mood. I’ve been asked out twice in the same week, and said no, and invited into every group st school and I decided to hang out with the outcasts. My best friend Riley had been with the most girls in school, between me and him 80% of the girls liked us. I was always dating someone I almost got married twice. Since then I think I have decided to never date again. So I am not really sure! My brother was the most popular kid in school (a different school), my sister hung out with the hottest group in school but she ended up leaving for the smartest group. Girls would talk to me randomly because of my brother in that school, and because of my sister. I had a crush on one girl and she was bouncing on my lap in front of everyone. Very awkward ;p It was so embarrassing I had to say my knee hurt. (Age 14) So I’m not really qualified to answer this question I think definitely! As I was in school I kind of hated girls being so sex driven, I think I was the only one who saw it that way because lots of girls fought for my attention. It was like an Animal Kingdom. In dreams I used to have fathers come to me asking me to marry their daughter because I was pure. I turned them all down. I have lost my innocence since then :p those who are pure in heart will see God, I used to see him almost every night. The only girls who approach me are black girls. I'm not that attracted to black girls. They just look... weird.
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Post by just10sp on Apr 23, 2018 5:23:58 GMT
, rude! I used to like them, I don't really have a type anymore ;p Calvin Harris - Girls ” I like them black girls, I like them white girls I like them Asian girls, I like them mix-raced girls I like them Spanish girls, I like them Italian girls I like the French girls and I like Scandinavian girls I like them tall girls, I like them short girls I like them brown haired girls, I like them blond haired girls I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls I like them carrying a little-bitty weight girls ” Naw I'm kidding I don't like any girl. I am going to school in two years! So we will see if I really am going to be single for life! Wish me luck
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Apr 23, 2018 5:27:09 GMT
, rude! I used to like them, I don't really have a type anymore ;p Calvin Harris - Girls ” I like them black girls, I like them white girls I like them Asian girls, I like them mix-raced girls I like them Spanish girls, I like them Italian girls I like the French girls and I like Scandinavian girls I like them tall girls, I like them short girls I like them brown haired girls, I like them blond haired girls I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls I like them carrying a little-bitty weight girls ” Naw I'm kidding I don't like any girl. I am going to school in two years! So we will see if I really am going to be single for life! Wish me luck Oh, my type is Scandinavian looking or North Asian, but honestly I don't really care. I just want a decent woman who I can have an intelligent conversation with.
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Post by just10sp on Apr 23, 2018 5:30:44 GMT
, rude! I used to like them, I don't really have a type anymore ;p Calvin Harris - Girls ” I like them black girls, I like them white girls I like them Asian girls, I like them mix-raced girls I like them Spanish girls, I like them Italian girls I like the French girls and I like Scandinavian girls I like them tall girls, I like them short girls I like them brown haired girls, I like them blond haired girls I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls I like them carrying a little-bitty weight girls ” Naw I'm kidding I don't like any girl. I am going to school in two years! So we will see if I really am going to be single for life! Wish me luck Oh, my type is Scandinavian looking or North Asian, but honestly I don't really care. I just want a decent woman who I can have an intelligent conversation with. Join a high IQ society?
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