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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 27, 2017 5:32:28 GMT
What do you think about this?
I won't lie but yeah when I was single I had a few but I ended up in a relationship shortly after. So for me it works as a transition from single to being in a relationship I guess. Otherwise, I see no point of it.
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Post by Nemanja on Dec 16, 2017 19:45:22 GMT
Well to tell the truth i for one dont see any point in it at all... nor do i desire it upon myself. Friendship should be friendship and lover affairs should be lover affairs. Also i must point out that sex before marriage is a grave sin according to the Orthodox church, alltho i am most certanly not the best example of a devout Orthodox Christian, i tend to follow at least the basics of Orthodox teachings (that includes not having sex no matter how hard that can be especialy in this modern era)
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 16, 2017 19:52:14 GMT
Well to tell the truth i for one dont see any point in it at all... nor do i desire it upon myself. Friendship should be friendship and lover affairs should be lover affairs. Also i must point out that sex before marriage is a grave sin according to the Orthodox church, alltho i am most certanly not the best example of a devout Orthodox Christian, i tend to follow at least the basics of Orthodox teachings (that includes not having sex no matter how hard that can be especialy in this modern era) Yes, exactly! Because kissing is considered friends with benefits to me and sex outside of marriage is considered sin so...yeah I don't agree on their definition on this with mine.
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Post by Διαμονδ on Dec 16, 2017 20:16:10 GMT
Kissing with friends is normal, because it's just emotions .. Shrug
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Post by Nemanja on Dec 16, 2017 20:18:49 GMT
Well naturaly yes even a kiss can be considerated and cathegorised as friends with benefits since a kiss is most certanly not what friends do at least in my expiriance or opinion based on that expiriance, the reason why i pointed out at sex is simply because most people decide to try out that fwb only to satisfy their urges.
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Post by Nemanja on Dec 16, 2017 20:20:53 GMT
Kissing with friends is normal, because it's just emotions .. Well kissing in the cheek is what friends do (sometimes especialy male and female friends).... kissing in the mouth is emmmm i think a bit more.... loverly shall we say xaxaxaxaxa :D
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 16, 2017 20:22:14 GMT
Well naturaly yes even a kiss can be considerated and cathegorised as friends with benefits since a kiss is most certanly not what friends do at least in my expiriance or opinion based on that expiriance, the reason why i pointed out at sex is simply because most people decide to try out that fwb only to satisfy their urges. Agreed!
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Post by Διαμονδ on Dec 16, 2017 20:24:00 GMT
Sex and a kiss there is a difference. Sex - it's Deep Relationship
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Post by Nemanja on Dec 16, 2017 20:31:36 GMT
Sex and a kiss there is a difference. Sex - it's Deep Relationship There is but a kiss is what lovers do, sex is what should hausbend and wife do (if we look at it more traditionaly) if not then ether sex or kiss is what lovers do, why would a friend want to kiss another friend in mouth otherwise if not to show some kind of affection or passion?
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Post by Διαμονδ on Dec 16, 2017 20:39:22 GMT
Of course! Well, all the emotions for me! Even a handshake is a kind of emotion. Do not be a sexist who sees everywhere the only lust!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 18, 2017 13:01:10 GMT
Oh boy are we like really painting the lines.. Reminds me of my time with my girlfriend. I was too caught up in that don't get laid before marriage, now a wider view and aspects amd my general thought doesnt regard it as sin. Its the bodily desire. But we get so caught up with what we are told growing up that i was too stuck with that notion . Its weird me and her sharing the same bed and then she is like give me ur cock. I want it so bad. And im like noooo. We gotta get married first. .( I feel so bad for her now). After i fill in the ink on a paper, the cosmos and the galaxies will be in harmony and allow me to fuck u.. See thats how strange it sounds. Now i look back on my time. I could have got laid gizzilion times in college or school or whatever. I have this point about sin. If it doesn't invlove hurting or depriving of someone's right. It aint a sin. Getting some hookers is cheap in my opinion. That u cant even get a girl for a relationship and real men don't buy girls.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 18, 2017 13:03:50 GMT
So going off of what unknown said...you can just kiss our friends and this qualifies as normal friendship? Nah, but thanks for the suggestion xD What are u saying.. I think i made it pretty clear whats the benefit and friends.
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 18, 2017 17:52:25 GMT
So going off of what unknown said...you can just kiss our friends and this qualifies as normal friendship? Nah, but thanks for the suggestion xD What are u saying.. I think i made it pretty clear whats the benefit and friends. A religious and nonreligious person has different definitions of this is all. Because biblically your version is a sin and those who do it go to hell so my friends with benefits is slight and not a big deal as a definition.
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Post by Azamat on Dec 20, 2017 4:03:02 GMT
I don't see anything harmful about intercourse between persons who don't happen to be sharing their entire lives together. Of course women carry the costs of pregnancy so both parties should be cautious and responsible but in my view that applies regardless of the kind of relationship they have.
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Post by convoy on Jan 20, 2018 15:15:49 GMT
I doubt I'd even get that far with a girl. I'm too shy and reclused for that.
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Post by convoy on Jan 20, 2018 15:17:39 GMT
What are u saying.. I think i made it pretty clear whats the benefit and friends. A religious and nonreligious person has different definitions of this is all. Because biblically your version is a sin and those who do it go to hell so my friends with benefits is slight and not a big deal as a definition. Actually, no... Christians believe that we all sin. That can never change. You cannot 'abolish' your own sins. Only Christ can do that. Believe in Christ and your sins are forgiven. That doesn't mean you get to do whatever you want, if you really, truly believe in Christ, you will feel guilt for your actions. Chastenment, etc.
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