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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 27, 2017 5:32:28 GMT
What do you think about this?
I won't lie but yeah when I was single I had a few but I ended up in a relationship shortly after. So for me it works as a transition from single to being in a relationship I guess. Otherwise, I see no point of it.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 29, 2017 12:04:30 GMT
Friends with benefit actually implies having sex, well i would love to. Although i wont necessarily wana bang her but yes cuddling and sleeping together, emotional support for her would be great.
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Post by Aesilief on Nov 29, 2017 13:45:02 GMT
I'm I agree with the principle of 'friends with benefits' as often one person is or becomes more attached than the other - this then can have the knock-on-effect of ruining the original friendship. Also, if you are physically attracted to your friend - who we have to assume you already like the companionship/morals/attitude to life of - surely this is already a recipe for a relationship not just friends of any sort! The only benefit (pardon the re-use of the word) to this type of relationship is for those who actively enjoy sex without commitment, because knowing your friend (as you already do/should) you would know them to be a safe partner. In my opinion that's about it really! Although I must confess I am writing this from the perspective of someone who has not and would not entertain this extended kind of friendship Addendum: Just had to turn off the emoji function in profile! Most annoying to see my words changed into emojis haha
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Post by mdk on Nov 30, 2017 12:54:31 GMT
I thought you are virgin but arent friends with benefits just friends but who have sex with eatch other? Sorry if its too private but I thought you are a virgin? I believe in friends with transition to relationship, I believe in close friends. But I dont believe exactly in friends with benefits but it can easy start out as friends and become relationship. I didn't mean sex . I mean kissing and stuff That's not what "friends with benefits" is about. It's about unattached sex. www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friends%20with%20benefits
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Post by Elizabeth on Nov 30, 2017 22:04:42 GMT
I just have my own definition or real definition must be fixed. What would you call friends who make out? Just friends? That doesn't seem correct either.
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Post by mdk on Dec 1, 2017 9:25:28 GMT
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 1, 2017 9:40:15 GMT
But also not quite friends anymore so that's why I called it a friendship with some benefits too. But that article is so true. You research a lot?
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Post by Διαμονδ on Dec 1, 2017 9:52:35 GMT
Interesting research!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 1, 2017 10:21:20 GMT
I thought you are virgin but arent friends with benefits just friends but who have sex with eatch other? Sorry if its too private but I thought you are a virgin? I believe in friends with transition to relationship, I believe in close friends. But I dont believe exactly in friends with benefits but it can easy start out as friends and become relationship. I didn't mean sex . I mean kissing and stuff It depends. Normally, I treat girls as I treat my male friends. I mean, I never view girls with relationship point of views. However, I don't know what they have in their minds.
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 1, 2017 10:31:05 GMT
I didn't mean sex . I mean kissing and stuff It depends. Normally, I treat girls as I treat my male friends. I mean, I never view girls with relationship point of views. However, I don't know what they have in their minds. That is the right way to do it! I treat guys as I treat my female friends too. People will always just think stuff probably. Who knows? :/
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2017 4:22:03 GMT
It depends. Normally, I treat girls as I treat my male friends. I mean, I never view girls with relationship point of views. However, I don't know what they have in their minds. That is the right way to do it! I treat guys as I treat my female friends too. People will always just think stuff probably. Who knows? :/me But yeah, I generally don't talk with an aristocratic or noble girl, I mean, those who are at top positions. I mean, it's out of respect. Infact, I try to avoid conversations with females as much less as I can. .
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 2, 2017 4:27:11 GMT
That is the right way to do it! I treat guys as I treat my female friends too. People will always just think stuff probably. Who knows? :/me But yeah, I generally don't talk with an aristocratic or noble girl, I mean, those who are at top positions. I mean, it's out of respect. Infact, I try to avoid conversations with females as much less as I can. . At least say hi to me sometimes :(
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2017 4:30:16 GMT
But yeah, I generally don't talk with an aristocratic or noble girl, I mean, those who are at top positions. I mean, it's out of respect. Infact, I try to avoid conversations with females as much less as I can. . At least say hi to me sometimes :(
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2017 4:38:44 GMT
I mean, I belong to bit old school. In our days, girls and boys talking together was taboo.
Now, even India is changing. Unfortunately, due to the restrictions of not talking together, and avoiding conversation less, and all of a sudden, with youngsters finding themselves near by, is again causing problems. I mean, generally, males tend to look for physical relationship in India.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 16, 2017 18:50:51 GMT
Woo the thread turned into what exactly is friends with benefits. u guys fuck each other, thats the benefit and ure friends not in a relationship.
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Post by Elizabeth on Dec 16, 2017 19:15:16 GMT
So going off of what unknown said...you can just kiss our friends and this qualifies as normal friendship? Nah, but thanks for the suggestion xD
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