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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 19, 2017 21:30:23 GMT
I've seen some say yes and some say no.
I say it is needed otherwise the relationship is disorganized and will fall apart since one does not consider the other.
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Post by Mortimer on Oct 19, 2017 23:00:15 GMT
id say yes, but not neccesserrily affection like in the first day.
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Post by cvolt on Oct 19, 2017 23:12:49 GMT
I guess different things can keep a relationship together, like money, kids, legal benefits. To have a satisfying relationship with love and affection definitely requires love!
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Post by Διαμονδ on Oct 19, 2017 23:24:59 GMT
Love is the basis for a relationship! without a doubt!
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Post by Heimdallr on Oct 20, 2017 0:16:31 GMT
I've seen some say yes and some say no. I say it is needed otherwise the relationship is disorganized and will fall apart since one does not consider the other. Friendship is needed for a relationship to survive long term. Any relationship that has substance, and can stand the test of time, must be a friendship first. Love grows from that friendship... Otherwise, it's just infatuation, aka lust (I've been there too).
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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 20, 2017 0:21:26 GMT
I've seen some say yes and some say no. I say it is needed otherwise the relationship is disorganized and will fall apart since one does not consider the other. Friendship is needed for a relationship to survive long term. Any relationship that has substance, and can stand the test of time, must be a friendship first. Love grows from that friendship... Otherwise, it's just infatuation, aka lust (I've been there too).Yes, I would say the partner must be your best friend too.
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Post by Mortimer on Oct 20, 2017 0:28:38 GMT
I've seen some say yes and some say no. I say it is needed otherwise the relationship is disorganized and will fall apart since one does not consider the other. Friendship is needed for a relationship to survive long term. Any relationship that has substance, and can stand the test of time, must be a friendship first. Love grows from that friendship... Otherwise, it's just infatuation, aka lust (I've been there too).agree.
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Post by archiebunker on Oct 20, 2017 7:00:00 GMT
A relationship without love is not worth keeping.
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Post by Lone Wanderer on Oct 20, 2017 8:28:17 GMT
True love is the result of a long-term friendship.
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Post by Heimdallr on Oct 20, 2017 18:30:37 GMT
True love is the result of a long-term friendship. A long-term friendship is the result of true love.
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Post by Lone Wanderer on Oct 21, 2017 14:35:04 GMT
True love is the result of a long-term friendship. A long-term friendship is the result of true love. True love ⇄ Long-term friendship
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Post by Kaspias on Oct 26, 2017 19:37:31 GMT
Love may initiate relationship, but there are different things to do afterwards
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Post by hansel on Oct 29, 2017 6:11:57 GMT
Love is just a word that is overused ii guess,in the real world its not the words we say but the things we do for the person we love that Matters,even the very little things like helping her do the dishes enjoying each others company,your relationship will last if you do this.its a two way thing:)
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Post by Elizabeth on Oct 29, 2017 6:27:44 GMT
Love is just a word that is overused ii guess,in the real world its not the words we say but the things we do for the person we love that Matters,even the very little things like helping her do the dishes enjoying each others company,your relationship will last if you do this.its a two way thing:) I agree 100% And to the ladies out there this guy is a great catch, I mean just look at that great post
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Post by Yhamilitz on Nov 14, 2017 2:40:28 GMT
Love is very important, but if is not love, then you need a lot of affection for the other person.
The kind of affection that can make you accept to have a relationship with that person and remain loyal to him/her. You need a very strong reason for have that relationship. And also being in good terms. We say that love is the most important thing because love make us feel nice things. Is like a pleasure. But I think that over time, you need another things. Then you need to be creative.
Per example, I can say that I want to be with a girl. and I may be in love with her, but at the end, that "moonlight" is over. And you need another thing. This is why is very important to meet the person very well. As a man, I know that I need to make the girl to have some emotion towards me. Just make the relationship somehow interesting. And also be the kind of person who she knows that will support her. It may be some things, depending of the person.
Now, in Spanish, we use 2 words, for say I love you: Te amo, and Te quiero. Both have different impact. And also being in love is something different in comparison to love someone. I think that loving someone can be for ever. Meanwhile being in love, last for only some months.
I only know that if you want to be with someone just because you have a desire, or some physical attraction, then that relationship will not last for a long time. Is only temporal. If you have that, but still want to have something serious with that person, then you need to build an justification for being with that person
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