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Post by Elizabeth on Mar 6, 2018 5:57:52 GMT
Is this something you'd ever consider? And explain why.
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Post by AmericanCharm on Mar 6, 2018 6:15:55 GMT
No, because it’s not my bloodline. If I am going to breed I want to pass my genetics on.
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Post by Clovis Merovingian on Mar 6, 2018 6:21:21 GMT
If I couldn't have kids then yeah.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 6, 2018 6:35:17 GMT
Never, but if anything, in order to get a heir, then, yes, I would adopt, but from my clan and my bloodline.
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Post by Elizabeth on Mar 6, 2018 6:46:04 GMT
No, because it’s not my bloodline. If I am going to breed I want to pass my genetics on. What if you couldn't reproduce...what then? |
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Post by AmericanCharm on Mar 6, 2018 7:10:21 GMT
No, because it’s not my bloodline. If I am going to breed I want to pass my genetics on. What if you couldn't reproduce...what then? That would be very unfortunate, but I still wouldn’t adopt. I just can’t look at a kid that isn’t truely made up of my genetics and think of it as mine. I just don’t think I could do it. It would always be in the back of my mind that it’s somebody else’s offspring, so no I wouldn’t. Although I used to help my Mother babysit this girl for almost 2 years, twice or three times a week. From the time she was 2-4 or 3-5. Her Mother was a girl my Mom used to baby sit when I was a kid so when I was a little kid when my Mom would watch her she would take me with her and I’d play with her and her brother and sister. She is 6 years older than me I think. So she was still kinda like a family friend. So this little girl was half Polish and a quarter Laotian and a quarter Cuban. She wasn’t even the same race as me. But I became quite close with this child. I would make her food, I’d hold her, she would like when I would skin and cut up apples for her and make her hot coco. I would play with her and put on her favorite movies and shows. I taught her that she needed to wash her hands everytime she went to the bathroom, because for some reason she didn’t like doin that. I also taught her she needed to pick up after herself. She liked when I’d put her on my shoulders, sometimes she would fall asleep in my arms. She began calling me Papi and I said no I’m not your Dad, which she knew but thought it was funny to call me that. I got pretty close with her for a time, I definitely cared about her a good bit and she wasn’t my blood. Adopting is a great thing to do. You're giving a child a chance at a family and a great life. |
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Post by Elizabeth on Mar 6, 2018 7:18:51 GMT
What if you couldn't reproduce...what then? That would be very unfortunate, but I still wouldn’t adopt. I just can’t look at a kid that isn’t truely made up of my genetics and think of it as mine. I just don’t think I could do it. It would always be in the back of my mind that it’s somebody else’s offspring, so no I wouldn’t. Although I used to help my Mother babysit this girl for almost 2 years, twice or three times a week. From the time she was 2-4 or 3-5. Her Mother was a girl my Mom used to baby sit when I was a kid so when I was a little kid when my Mom would watch her she would take me with her and I’d play with her and her brother and sister. She is 6 years older than me I think. So she was still kinda like a family friend. So this little girl was half Polish and a quarter Laotian and a quarter Cuban. She wasn’t even the same race as me. But I became quite close with this child. I would make her food, I’d hold her, she would like when I would skin and cut up apples for her and make her hot coco. I would play with her and put on her favorite movies and shows. I taught her that she needed to wash her hands everytime she went to the bathroom, because for some reason she didn’t like doin that. I also taught her she needed to pick up after herself. She liked when I’d put her on my shoulders, sometimes she would fall asleep in my arms. She began calling me Papi and I said no I’m not your Dad, which she knew but thought it was funny to call me that. I got pretty close with her for a time, I definitely cared about her a good bit and she wasn’t my blood. Adopting is a great thing to do. You're giving a child a chance at a family and a great life. So if that girl needed adopting...you wouldn't? |
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Post by christianman769 on Mar 6, 2018 7:21:34 GMT
Is this something you'd ever consider? And explain why. Yah when I'm married,Because I would not want a child to go without a family and also I was adopted into Gods family. |
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Post by AmericanCharm on Mar 6, 2018 7:30:53 GMT
That would be very unfortunate, but I still wouldn’t adopt. I just can’t look at a kid that isn’t truely made up of my genetics and think of it as mine. I just don’t think I could do it. It would always be in the back of my mind that it’s somebody else’s offspring, so no I wouldn’t. Although I used to help my Mother babysit this girl for almost 2 years, twice or three times a week. From the time she was 2-4 or 3-5. Her Mother was a girl my Mom used to baby sit when I was a kid so when I was a little kid when my Mom would watch her she would take me with her and I’d play with her and her brother and sister. She is 6 years older than me I think. So she was still kinda like a family friend. So this little girl was half Polish and a quarter Laotian and a quarter Cuban. She wasn’t even the same race as me. But I became quite close with this child. I would make her food, I’d hold her, she would like when I would skin and cut up apples for her and make her hot coco. I would play with her and put on her favorite movies and shows. I taught her that she needed to wash her hands everytime she went to the bathroom, because for some reason she didn’t like doin that. I also taught her she needed to pick up after herself. She liked when I’d put her on my shoulders, sometimes she would fall asleep in my arms. She began calling me Papi and I said no I’m not your Dad, which she knew but thought it was funny to call me that. I got pretty close with her for a time, I definitely cared about her a good bit and she wasn’t my blood. Adopting is a great thing to do. You're giving a child a chance at a family and a great life. So if that girl needed adopting...you wouldn't? I can’t really answer that question. I mean she has an Aunt and Uncle, as well as two Grandmothers that would take care of her so it wouldn’t come to that. |
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Post by Elizabeth on Mar 6, 2018 7:48:00 GMT
Is this something you'd ever consider? And explain why. Yah when I'm married,Because I would not want a child to go without a family and also I was adopted into Gods family. I like this answer. God would want orphins to be taken care off and brought up to know Him  |
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Post by Διαμονδ on Mar 6, 2018 8:29:30 GMT
My experience tells me that good parents will not give up their children, many children from so parents are like them! But if she wants me of feelings for her, I'll do it!
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