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Post by Polaris on Jan 4, 2018 22:17:06 GMT
According to a psychological theory, there are four life positions that we usually take in communicating with other people. the position one takes depends on how one perceives and appreciates him/herself and how he/she perceives and appreciates the one he/she deals with. They are :
1-I'm Not OK, You're OK
2-I'm Not OK, You're Not OK
3-I'm OK, You're Not OK
4-I'm OK, You're OK
only those of position No.4 are capable of growth, change and having healthy relationships. My question is: which do you think is the most common life position?
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Post by Elizabeth on Jan 4, 2018 22:37:59 GMT
Most common in terms of the whole world? Then probably #2 :(
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Post by Polaris on Jan 5, 2018 9:33:16 GMT
Most common in terms of the whole world? Then probably #2 :( it is true that 2 is the most common in terms of the whole world, and I believe that from position 3 come all our miseries!!! |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2018 22:51:37 GMT
I think differently. First of all, how we sure about 'o.k.ness'? It depends on the surrounded persons. So, I can ask myself - am I ok? (not being under present concsiousness, of course) And the answer would be a function of the rest persons had said. And not just of their answers, but on their spirital conditions, their motives etc. So, this question is not about a person's feels, but the society's also. That's why I think that the answer depends on the person's place in society. If I am ostrasized tnan I won't be thinking that '1' or '4', if I friend with everybody it's doubtfully that I choose '2' or '3'. Besides, there's a time limitations for holding these veiews. Before discussion I maybe chose '1', but right after or in the process I could change it to '2' or '3'. Tanks!  |
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