Lakupala
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Post by Lakupala on Feb 5, 2018 1:47:00 GMT
There's a gril I like but I don't know what to say since whenever I talk to people I always give one-word responses like "cool" and "alright". Am I doomed? -.- And what will make me look more attractive? (Like clothes and demeanor and all that stuff.)
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Lakupala
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Bad times are just times that are bad.
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Post by Lakupala on Feb 5, 2018 21:22:00 GMT
Talk to a wide range of people, and often. You cannot improve your social skills (or any skill) unless you practice consistently. Experiment and try different approaches, and see which ones fit you and get you the results you need. But most importantly DON'T BE NEEDY. You should not compromise yourself or your values in pursuit of another person's attention. Your attitude should be one of self-sufficiency--you are enough. If it works out with this girl, then that's great. If it doesn't work out with this girl, then there are plenty more who would be more than happy to date you, so that's ok, too. There is a blog called the Rational Male. The collection of articles under "Year One" are incredibly useful. I don't agree with everything in it (especially the promotion of casual sex), but it does explain very well the kind of mindset that you should have when dealing with others, especially of the opposite sex. therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ Thanks fam. I'll give this a read.
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Lakupala
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Bad times are just times that are bad.
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Post by Lakupala on Feb 10, 2018 0:33:44 GMT
Talk to a wide range of people, and often. You cannot improve your social skills (or any skill) unless you practice consistently. Experiment and try different approaches, and see which ones fit you and get you the results you need. But most importantly DON'T BE NEEDY. You should not compromise yourself or your values in pursuit of another person's attention. Your attitude should be one of self-sufficiency--you are enough. If it works out with this girl, then that's great. If it doesn't work out with this girl, then there are plenty more who would be more than happy to date you, so that's ok, too. There is a blog called the Rational Male. The collection of articles under "Year One" are incredibly useful. I don't agree with everything in it (especially the promotion of casual sex), but it does explain very well the kind of mindset that you should have when dealing with others, especially of the opposite sex. therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ I don't understand any of this.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2018 0:37:11 GMT
Talk to a wide range of people, and often. You cannot improve your social skills (or any skill) unless you practice consistently. Experiment and try different approaches, and see which ones fit you and get you the results you need. But most importantly DON'T BE NEEDY. You should not compromise yourself or your values in pursuit of another person's attention. Your attitude should be one of self-sufficiency--you are enough. If it works out with this girl, then that's great. If it doesn't work out with this girl, then there are plenty more who would be more than happy to date you, so that's ok, too. There is a blog called the Rational Male. The collection of articles under "Year One" are incredibly useful. I don't agree with everything in it (especially the promotion of casual sex), but it does explain very well the kind of mindset that you should have when dealing with others, especially of the opposite sex. therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ I don't understand any of this. I'll put it in layman's terms. Basically, talk to a fuck ton of people, and get the feeling of socialization and conversation. Once, you have experience, then ask out the girl. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out. There are plenty more girls that you can look forward to date and go out with.
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Lakupala
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Post by Lakupala on Feb 10, 2018 0:42:59 GMT
Okay, thanks.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2018 0:45:09 GMT
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"Exemption from Death is in itself the Death of Exemption"
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Post by -VITNI- on Feb 12, 2018 1:41:24 GMT
Escape from insecurity first. One of the first things a woman will notice of you is this, it determines everything about you from speech to stance and yes, even the way you dress. A good way to do this is by experience, usually painful ones.. However you can save the time and realize how powerful you are inside as a man by researching or learning something, a skill. Master this, an art of anything. brings confidence.
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